Jennifer Lopez on Being Her “Best Self”

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Mom-of-two Jennifer Lopez covers the October issue of Cosmopolitan. The 44-year-old American Idol judge opens up about her nearly two-year relationship with 26-year-old choreographer Casper Smart, her 5-year-old twins Max and Emme, and her biggest insecurity.

On when she became insecure: “It was after I had kids to be honest . . . The biggest insecurity I had was my singing. Even though I had sold 70 million records, there was this feeling like, I’m not good at this. And while I was married to Marc, he helped me get over it. He kept telling me, ‘You’re the only one holding yourself back from reaching your full potential as a singer. You have to let go. I was always so insecure and just kind of going along. Then I grew, little by little, and realized, wait a minute, this is not a fluke. I’m not a mistake — I work my ass off. And I know what I’m doing.”

On her relationship with Casper: “For me, it’s about having a great partner to walk this life with. I have my own high standards for what I want in a partner and how I want to be treated. I bring a lot to the table. I’m not talking about material things but what I have to offer as a person — love and loyalty and all the things that make a good relationship.” She added, “It’s funny, early on with Beau [Casper], I remember telling him how I have a real button on being ignored. And he was like, ‘Listen, if somebody ignores you, then forget them. They don’t deserve to have your attention.’ But it’s funny. Sometimes when we don’t get it, we try to get it in a negative way, you know?”

On being a role model: “I know that being seen as a role model means taking responsibility for all my actions. I am human, and of course, sometimes I make mistakes. But I promise that when I fall, I get back up. When I am wrong, I will learn the lesson and move on to face other challenges. For me, that’s what creating your own life is. Doing your best work while being your best self.”

For more from Jennifer, go to Cosmopolitan

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  1. arabella

    when Emme was younger she was a unfortunate looking child but as she grew up she gotten pretty.

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  2. romi

    Emme is a mini Jen! She’s adorable and she seems so sweet ^_^

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  3. Kristina

    Max looks like daddy :)

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  4. amber

    Jennifer lopez is to old to have those kids. Ugly

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